FLEX

📍 Gay bars in New York

5.7

FLEX in New York stands out as a welcoming gay bar that blends neighborhood charm with the dynamic energy of city nightlife. The space is designed to foster connection, offering a lively yet unpretentious atmosphere where guests—whether dressed up or casually—feel equally at ease. A standout feature is its consistently strong drinks, crafted by attentive bartenders who balance speed with personalized service.

The crowd reflects the diversity of NYC’s LGBTQ+ community, and the music seamlessly transitions to keep the energy flowing without overwhelming the space. Whether visiting for happy hour or a late-night gathering, FLEX delivers a reliable experience, making it a go-to spot for both locals and travelers. Its inclusive vibe and thoughtful details—like seasonal decor—reinforce its reputation as a well-loved destination.

Features and services of FLEX

From the business

  • Identifies as LGBTQ+ owned

Service options

  • Outdoor seating

Highlights

  • Fast service
  • Great beer selection
  • Great cocktails

Accessibility

  • Wheelchair-accessible entrance
  • Wheelchair-accessible toilet

Offerings

  • Alcohol
  • Beer
  • Cocktails
  • Dancing
  • Happy-hour drinks
  • Spirits
  • Wine

Dining options

  • Seating

Amenities

  • Gender-neutral toilets
  • Toilet

Atmosphere

  • Casual

Crowd

  • Groups
  • LGBTQ+ friendly
  • Tourists
  • Transgender safe space

Payments

  • Credit cards
  • Debit cards
  • NFC mobile payments

FLEX is in position 24 out of 49 in gay bars in New York

Customer Reviews

★★★★★
★★★★★

FLEX has a rating of 4.5 out of 5 based on over 168 reviews on Google

George Perdomo-Velez

Flex is THAT bar. Period. From the moment you walk in, the energy is electric but welcoming, the perfect balance of neighborhood comfort and full-on NYC nightlife. The music is always on point (no awkward transitions, just vibe after vibe), the crowd is fun and diverse, and the bartenders? Absolute pros. Fast, friendly, and they actually make strong, well-crafted drinks. What I love most is that Flex feels unpretentious. You can show up dressed to impress or keep it casual and still feel completely at home. It’s the kind of place where you start the night planning to stay for one drink… and suddenly it’s 1:30 a.m. and you’re making new friends. Whether you’re a local or visiting New York City, Flex delivers a consistently great time. It’s inclusive, high-energy, and exactly what a great gay bar in NYC should be. We LOVE this bar! 🥂

George Perdomo-Velez ☆ 5/5
Richie Perdomo-Velez

Absolutely amazing experience at FLEX NYC! From the moment we stepped in at 405 W. 51st Street, the vibe was electric yet welcoming — the perfect blend of fun, community, and energy. The bar itself is beautifully designed with great atmosphere and vibrant décor that sets the tone for an unforgettable night out.  The staff were incredibly friendly and attentive throughout the evening. Whether it was recommendations on drinks or just great conversation at the bar, every interaction felt genuine and fun. The crowd was diverse and lively — a true reflection of NYC’s LGBTQ+ community — and the music kept the energy high without ever feeling overwhelming.  Happy hour here is fantastic, and the drinks are both strong and reasonably priced. Whether we were winding down after a long week or kicking off a big night out, FLEX quickly became our go-to spot in Hell’s Kitchen. Can’t wait to come back!

Richie Perdomo-Velez ☆ 5/5
Mike Mierzejwski

Incredibly friendly staff. Very local neighborhoody vibes. Been coming here since they opened and love it. They also go all out decorating for holidays!

Mike Mierzejwski ☆ 5/5
S. Thomas

Best bar in hell’s kitchen. Great staff. Great prices. Great crowd.

S. Thomas ☆ 5/5
Bryan Campione

Best gay bar in Manhattan. Incredible staff and wonderful service. The pricing is comparable to happy hours and evenings. Love it so!

Bryan Campione ☆ 5/5
Jeff Jezierski

I’m a big fan of Flex. When I moved back to the City a few years back I was looking for a bar that was relaxed with a good vibe and mix of customers. It’s a place I can celebrate with friends before going out for a special occasion dinner or to see a show and also the go-to spot that we can meet up on the weekends for happy hour "why not?" Drinks or late night "let’s keep the good times going"drinks. Sexy bartenders and my go-to bar in Hells Kitchen.

Jeff Jezierski ☆ 5/5
Frank Bator

This is one of the best bars in Hells Kitchen! The owners and staff are fantastic. Their customer service ranks number 1 in this industry. Each bartender and staff member are unique and really care for their customers. Also they are fun to hang with. I have been to many bars over the years and this has to be one of the best. A really fun place to hang out in the city. Thank you guys! You are the best! 🥳

Frank Bator ☆ 5/5
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Information about FLEX

Address

FLEX is located at 405 W 51st St, New York, NY 10019, United States

Phone

The phone number of FLEX is +1 646-449-8684

Website

The website of FLEX is: flexbarnyc.com

Business Hours

Monday: 16:00–02:00
Tuesday: 16:00–02:00
Wednesday: 16:00–02:00
Thursday: 16:00–02:00
Friday: 16:00–04:00
Saturday: 15:00–04:00
Sunday: 15:00–02:00

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