Mother

Mother in the Mission is such a gem — one of those rare bars that gets everything right. The cocktails were outstanding — so flavorful, balanced, and genuinely fun to sip while catching up with friends. The ambience is what really sets it apart: a huge, airy room with a warm, welcoming vibe and a big screen playing movies that adds to the laid-back charm. It’s the kind of place that feels easy — no pretension, just good drinks, good company, and great energy. A perfect spot to unwind, connect, and feel completely at home.

The server with the braids was so nice, gave me my modelo quickly and I tipped her accordingly. No complaints there. The dude checking IDs is also very sweet always. However, the girl with straight dark hair has a big attitude. I am a newly 21 girl and didn’t know you couldn’t bring your drink in front of the bar. I wouldn’t even have minded having my drink taken away if she had politely told me it wasn’t allowed. It was only $5 after all! She proceeded to accuse me of threatening the livelihood of a queer bar, as if I wasn’t a lesbian myself. She also asked me if I was from here, which why would that even matter? You’re lame for that haha. Didn’t appreciate that at all, I won’t be coming back again for solely that reason. The bar is always empty every time I peek in on weekends anyways so I don’t know why she’s driving away customers like this lmao. Very lame behavior girl get a grip!!!

I went to this place because it was my sister’s birthday. They would not allow me in saying it was a ladies bar. I had went there the year before for my sister’s wife birthday. The bouncer was rude and kept saying I could not stand in front of the bar. I was standing there waiting for my sister and her wife to come. The bouncer during my waiting period allowed cis males to enter that she knew. After she kept turning away any group with men in it. Then the bartender and the bouncer cussed me out while I waited on the sidewalk for my sister and her wife to find parking. This place is toxic I would rather go to the DMV than this establishment.

Drinks and service were wonderful. I really wanted to like this place more but none of the toilets were working and they couldn't run the dishwasher due to a plumbing issue. All very unsanitary. Also cash only but they have an ATM. Hopefully they will have the plumbing fixed before we try again. We didn't want to leave early but we had to since there was not a functional bathroom. Update: it's fixed and now I can just love the vibes.

Fantastic little punk rock lesbian bar. Loved the vibe. A little cramped but it was definitely atmospheric! Also, I heard the explanation they give to masc presenting men over preserving the space and keeping it comfortable for all women, love that!!

My boyfriend and I are both transgender. We are always looking for interesting nightlife that also feels comfortable and inclusive. Mother has always been that! We have never felt uncomfortable here and always feel welcome. The bouncer is always very nice and keeps the right crowd in the bar. Angelica, a bartender has also been very kind and informative and has made us feel welcomed. The Malibu pineapple was also delicious ❤️

An Absolute Gem – A Must-Visit Queer Haven! This bar is everything a community space should be—warm, inclusive, and downright magical. As a lesbian-owned establishment, it radiates authenticity and pride from the moment you walk through the door. The energy is always electric but never overwhelming—just the right balance of cozy and alive. You can vibe to music while still being able to chat with your friends without shouting at them The bartenders are absolute sweethearts—welcoming, attentive, and somehow always remember your favorite drink (which, by the way, might be hard to choose because the drink menu is out of this world: from having their own custom Mother beer, cocktails with playful names, top-shelf spirits, and fun ways to take your shots, that make the experience fun! What truly sets this place apart are the unique events—from drink & draw to dance parties, trans meetups, tech networking social mixers, the diversity of events is palpable and it's easy to meet new friends or just vibe with chosen family. It’s not just a bar—it’s a pillar of the community, a safe space where joy, connection, and celebration thrive. Whether you're a regular or it's your first time walking in, you'll leave feeling like you belong. Can’t recommend it enough. Five stars doesn’t do it justice.